Ok…. Whn u were young….. parents sent u to school…. made u study, do the homework on time…. Made u get good marks in exams…. build the foundation of ur lives….. then u grew up….. then came college days…. First crush…. then second then third & so on ……. Even before u could identify whats gonna be ur Profession…. Love life was as if waiting to Rock ur lives…. In some ppl' cases it really rocked…. & in some it rocked that very person!!!!
When life is not manageable…. Love would always make entry in grand fashion…. does that disturbs life ??? I guess, not ‘disturb’ but it certainly changes the parameters of life…. waise si sab ulta pulta hua hota hai...... u find love is the only way out of it & u dont need any reason to fall in love, do u ? haha
Suddenly QSQT mode rakes up & dil sings akele hai to kya gum hai, chahe to humare bas mai kya nahi….bas ek jara saath ho tera…. Suddenly u wanna take extreme step & since its not a movie but one’s life….. Some sensible person diffuse this entire issue & once again life moves in the direction of managing the profession….. Love is on hold…. Just for some time hahaha…. If ur profession is managed during this cool off time…. Then u can look forward to go ahead else….. the girl/boy whatever the case is, will always sing 'tere to hai hum kabse sanam' for som1 else…. & then keep all those feelings for your lifetime..... just as it is.
U can’t kill that feeling, at the most u can keep it locked for years together, avoid discussing it……… pretend to forget it….. or u get busy in so many other things that u actually lose sight of that feeling. But whenever u recall….. whenever u r in nostalgic mode……… u can realize u miss out ur heartbeat rhythm for a moment…. & that’s very natural. That’s the sign of true feelings. That’s the sign of commitment from ur side…. & u should be proud of those feelings whenever they hit ur thoughts…. U are amongst those lucky person in the world who could realize what true love feeling is all about ! & believe me ur thought too would come in mind of the person u r thinking about at that very moment! Yes, it has to….. when that feeling can make u miss your heart beat….. it can surely at least reach that person ! Otherwise the law of balanced feelings is contradicted (Law -: For every genuine remembrance of a person or an incident….. there is the same person same time who is remembering the person who is genuinely remembering him or an incident although may be with less or much more intensity!) This law is very much true….. its just that u have to come out with those strong feelings & develop a bond with that person to realize this. This is also called as Telepathy by normal mankind who live nearby super humans like u & me !.
& yess during this entire exercise u have to manage your profession, your personal life as well. rather u need to justify on both the fronts.... & that too successfully.
If u could realize from above….. there are three main aspects for any person…..
His/her life, his/her profession & his/her love. These three become the 3 vertices of a Triangle within which u move throughout your lifetime.
But at any point of time u can be incharge of only two vertices…. U r unjust with the third vertex, always. Its not easy to live 3 dimensional life.
Either u can live ur life by keeping love as your priority or u can live your life by keeping profession as ur priority & love takes the backsit.
Either u can live ur Profession and make a life out of it or u just love your profession & then life goes for a toss
or u can simply prioritize love & live ur life peacefully i.e. a happy family life as they say.
Whats the best way ? well….. at least its good that we have realized this is what we are upto…. Now its personal call as to what to do ….
I would say for any option u choose u are losing something very essential & important part of ur life…….. but dear life’s just like that !!!!!
cya wit som other imp aspect of life next time.....
~ The One